Every baby boomer thinks about it occasionally. “Where will I be in the next 15 to 25 years?”

Some of us are fortunate enough to have families who also have time to care for us in our later years. But those numbers are small. Most will move into adult family homes because of need or choice.

The experience can be daunting for some and positive for others. Regardless of how we see it, making a plan for the future is an important step. The outcome can be rewarding.

Adult family homes can be a comfortable alternative to living at home. Most are in nice neighborhoods and all have their special “personalities.” Some are warm and cozy and others are more institutional, with a cooler “edge.” It pays to visit many before deciding on which one suits you best.

The advantages and benefits of living in an adult family home are many. One advantage is social. Many social activities are offered such as holiday parties, walks, games, and movies. It’s always your choice. You can join in the activities or not.

Parties usually include special entertainment such as singers, or a variety of musicians. There are sing-a-longs where you can join in some of your favorite songs. You can play bingo, cards, bunko, or bridge. It’s fun to watch movies with friends on big screen televisions. Having immediate access to an in-house hair or nail salon, without leaving your home, is one of the best conveniences. Some adult family homes offer day-outings. Living in an adult family home is like having a second family.

Most all adult family homes include three home-cooked meals per day and are served in a group setting where conversations and interesting people are many. You can make new friends. On occasion, you might want to invite your family or loved ones to join you for meals.

Almost every adult family home has in-house nursing and caregivers who understand senior issues. Usually, there are two caregivers for every six residents. If you have special needs for a certain medicine, trained professionals are there to help you 24/7. There is always someone to monitor your health needs. Knowing you’re in a safe place with professional caregivers is one of “the best medicines” around. There are no more mix ups on medicines or missed injections. Care at adult family homes is customized.

Some couples move into an adult family home together. This can mean “real” retirement where you and your spouse can enjoy more time together without the burden of household duties – no more home maintenance, yard work, or exhaustive house cleaning.

When considering an adult family home, it’s a good idea to talk with an individual, or placement specialist, who is familiar with various homes in your area. A good placement specialist has professional relationships with many adult family homes. The best part is they can assess special needs and/or personalities and find the best fit. This can save you many hours and days of searching for just the right place.

For more information on adult family homes, contact Charlotte Benson, Living Well Senior Placements LLC, at 206-200-3005 or benson@wolfnet.com.

Kathryn Paulson is a 25-year Kirkland resident and freelance writer.